(Don’t) Save it for the Honeymoon

How’s Bora Bora sound?

Very sexy sexy. –Serendipity

Here’s a confession — I may be a hoarder. I try saving up:

  • creativity, because I am convinced the stream will run dry, and I will have nothing left to offer.
  • big asks, like collecting gold coins at Chuck E. Cheese to buy the bright neon stuffed bear rather than a whole lot of silly bandz.
  • words from the Lord, for myself or for others, as if he only speaks every once in awhile and I want to make sure I have it just right before I share it with anyone else.

Today is about the big ask.

My dear friend is moving to South Africa soon. She’s been there and other places in Africa before, but never on a safari. This is an adventure she’s been dreaming up for her honeymoon for years. Such an epic event should happen on such a momentous occasion, no?

Turns out, her future casa in Mafeking, South Africa (go ahead and giggle) backs right up to the wildlife reserve. That’s right. Safaris everyday, right outside her backdoor.

While we’re in America with our domesticated cats and dogs, she will have zebras, lions, and rhinos in her backyard.

Grinning ear-to-ear with excitement, Sara told me how she’d been asking God to one day let her go on a safari for her honeymoon, and instead, he is giving her a safari everyday.

She’s thrilled, and it got me thinking.

I save up my requests for when I will really want them, as if God only gives us our desires once in a blue moon so I shouldn’t risk asking for just any day, but a truly special one. I save up hopes and dreams for a special occasion like a honeymoon or retirement or just someday.

Why can’t I go and do these things now? Why should I wait for my honeymoon when I can have backyard safaris everyday?

God’s goodness is not some pie with only so many slices.

A piece of inheritance today does not leave me hungry tomorrow.

I think I am going to start asking God for some big (and little) things today, for today. Not for years from now, or when I am married, or when I live here or have this job. No, it’s safe to say I am ready for his goodness today.

And I’ll trust his goodness will be there tomorrow too.

What are you asking for today?

(Coffee Bay, South Africa. Photo credit: Brittani Dunlap)


  1. itschuntastic · December 1, 2012

    me and my filthy mind always sets me up for disappointment… Good Word– Get your whole damn pie

  2. hollandocox · December 1, 2012

    i like this

  3. Lindsay · December 1, 2012

    Love it girl!

  4. Christy · December 1, 2012

    this is awesome. thanks for sharing.
    God’s goodness…brilliant!

  5. Stacy P. · December 2, 2012

    “A piece of inheritance today does not leave me hungry tomorrow.” Wow. That’s so good! Love this post and the truth you brought.

  6. raw milk marathon · December 3, 2012

    “Why should I wait for my honeymoon when I can have backyard safaris everyday?”
    A great reminder! Your posts are inspiring and uplifting.

  7. Sara · December 5, 2012

    Always bringing the word and the truth, girl. Delighted to know you.

  8. Hughes · January 9, 2013

    mmmmm…so good. Thanks, love.

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